I am 27 years old male. I am having a lot of trouble during sexual intercourse. My fore skin gets very tight when penis is erect and upon having sex it gets cut and that is very painful. Due to this problem I am not able to have sex. I have no problems of erection or any other disorder. My close friend advised me to get circumcised. Is that the only option? If not what do you advise?
I am 27 years old male. I am having a lot of trouble during sexual intercourse. My fore skin gets very tight?
Hi,
Application of coconut oil on the glans and then attempting retraction may benefit you. You may try it for a couple of weeks. If the problem still persists, circumcision by a competent plastic surgeon would be the option. However till then, you can wear a condom and then have sexual intercourse. This will prevent any movement of your foreskin and thereby there won’t be any cuts and intercourse would be painless!
Enjoy Life,
Dr.Mojo
Reply:Sounds like Phimosis
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Phimosis is a medical condition, occurring in many un-circumcised men, in which the foreskin cannot be fully retracted over the head of the penis. The condition is
embarrassing and reduces sensitivity of the penis during sexual intercourse.
Commonly it may also lead to infection of the head of the penis, causing irritation and discharge.
The tightening of the foreskin is caused by a tight preputial ring, a band of fibrous tissue at the end of the foreskin. Glansie allows you to stretch the preputial ring, gradually increasing the amount by which the foreskin can be retracted. This is a completely natural process, accomplished in the comfort of your own home.
Circumcision:
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Definition
Circumcision is the surgical removal of the foreskin of the penis. It is often performed in healthy boys for cultural or religious reasons. In the U.S., circumcision of a newborn boy is usually done before he leaves the hospital. Jewish boys, however, are circumcised when they are 8 days old.
The merits of circumcision are currently under debate. There is NOT a compelling medical rationale for the procedure in healthy boys. However, some boys have medical conditions where circumcision may be needed.
Many physicians, rather than routinely recommending circumcision for healthy boys, allow the parents to make the decision after presenting them with the pros and cons.
Alternative Names
Foreskin removal; Removal of foreskin
Description
A numbing medication (local anesthesia) is recommended during the procedure. It might be injected at the base of the penis, in the shaft, or applied as a cream to reduce pain.
There are a variety of ways to perform a circumcision. Most commonly, the foreskin is pushed from the head of the penis and clamped with a metal or plastic ring-like device.
If the ring is metal, the foreskin is cut off and the metal device removed. The circumcision heals in 5-7 days.
If the ring is plastic, a piece of suture is tied tightly around the foreskin. This pushes the tissue into a groove in the plastic over the head of the penis. Within 5-7 days, the plastic covering the penis falls free, leaving a completely healed circumcision.
A sweetened pacifier or lollipop may be given to the baby during the procedure. This may reduce pain. Tylenol (acetaminophen) may be given afterward.
Circumcision of older and adolescent boys is usually done while the child is completely asleep and pain-free (using general anesthesia). The foreskin is removed and stitched onto the remaining skin of the penis. Stitches that will dissolve (absorbable sutures) are used and will be absorbed within 7 to 10 days.
Indications
In some faiths, including Judaism and Islam, circumcisions are performed on all baby boys as a religious rite. In some parts of the world, including Europe, Asia, and South and Central America, circumcision is rare among the general population.
Opinions vary among physicians regarding the need for circumcision in healthy boys. Some place great value on the benefits of an intact foreskin, including a more natural sexual response during adulthood.
However, some studies suggest that uncircumcised male infants have an increased risk of urinary tract infections. Other studies show correlations between being uncircumcised and an increased risk of developing penile cancer, some sexually transmitted diseases including HIV, infections of the penis, and phimosis (tightness of the foreskin, not allowing it to retract over the glans penis). The overall increased risk for these conditions is thought to be relatively small.
Proper hygiene of the penis and safe sexual practices can help prevent phimosis, penile cancer, AIDS, and other sexually transmitted diseases. Proper hygiene is always important, but is thought to be especially important for an uncircumcised male.
The American Academy of Pediatrics revised their policy statement on circumcision in March 1999, and this policy is supported by the American Medical Association. Their summary of the policy is the following:
"Existing scientific evidence demonstrates potential medical benefits of newborn male circumcision; however, these data are not sufficient to recommend routine neonatal circumcision. In circumstances in which there are potential benefits and risks, yet the procedure is not essential to the child's current well-being, parents should determine what is in the best interest of the child. To make an informed choice, parents of all male infants should be given accurate and unbiased information and be provided the opportunity to discuss this decision. If a decision for circumcision is made, procedural analgesia should be provided."
Risks
· Bleeding
· Infection
· Localized redness
· Injury to the penis
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Foreskin Restoration
Here are the reasons to restore - outlining why all circumcised men should consider foreskin restoration:
· To restore the foreskin and to become intact, as nature intended, is to create an enhanced sensitivity of the penis and better sexual performance.
· The surface of the glans of the restored penis should be moist, thin and shiny mucous membrane. In the un-restored male it is a dried, thick and dulled protective layer, resulting from years of exposure to the air and rubbing of clothing.
· The extra skin on restored men provides for better intercourse because of the rolling action of the foreskin as opposed to the abrasive sliding action of circumcised men.
· With the use of this product your sexual performance will improve dramatically. No more doctors fees, no more expensive performance enhancing drugs. Foreskin restoration is the key.
· Doctors now acknowledge that there are no hygiene problems associated with restoring your foreskin.
· It is better psychologically for you to restore and feel intact.
· The MySkinClamp foreskin restoration device is manufactured from medical grade stainless steel.
· Click here to see how you can restore your foreskin with the non-surgical MySkinClamp foreskin restorer.
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Top 10 Reasons Men Don't Want Sex
Men always want sex. Right? Wrong. I have often heard the sexual partner of a man say, "My mate doesn't want to have sex. What's wrong with him? Don't all men want sex?" That's a common misunderstanding and it's based on the mistaken belief that men are wired to want sex most times they can get it.
Here's a list of ten common reasons why men may not want sex:
1. Medications. Antidepressants (SSRI-type) and antihypertensives (blood pressure medication) are often the culprit when a man has a lowered interest in sexual activity. These can also cause sexual dysfunction.
2. Lack of sleep. When a man is in his teens or twenties, the opportunity to have sex will often overwhelm the desire to sleep. This is often true also when a relationship is brand new. But, as people and relationships age, sex can lose its compelling nature and a good night's rest can be quite tempting.
3. Hormonal levels. The most important physiological stimulant of sexual desire is testosterone. Many men are mistakenly sent to have a blood test for total testosterone when low libido is the issue. While that information might be interesting to know to have a full picture of a man's hormonal levels, knowing the free testosterone level is much more relevant to how much sex he desires. Also, too much prolactin and SHBG (sex hormone binding globulin) can suppress sexual desire. So when a hormonal reason is suspected, these are the blood tests to have (in order of importance): free testosterone, prolactin, SHBG, and total testosterone.
4. Identity issues. When men feel uncertain about their role in the world, their desire for sex can dwindle. Depression may be linked to this, but isn't always. Identity issues can crop up when: he has issues at work or is out of work, faces the death of an important family member, becomes disheartened about a formerly held strong belief, and questions his understanding of his own sexual orientation -- to name a few.
5. Turn-off to aspects of the sex. Some men will turn away from sex rather than have sex that is not fulfilling to them. Lack of fulfillment can be related to specific things that his partner does during sex or how he experiences his partner's body. He may feel criticized or treated unfairly. It may just seem like too much "work." He may have sexual interests that he knows or fears his partner may not share.
6. Disagreements with one's mate. When there are interpersonal difficulties between the members of a couple, many men will avoid sex or just plain refuse their partner's advances. Some men punish their partner by withholding sex, but for others it's not a matter of punishment, they just cannot muster sexual feelings when there are unresolved conflicts.
7. Stress. Stress comes in many forms and may stem from: financial difficulties, personal or family member illness, challenges at work, parenting dilemmas, and issues involving extended family members. Of course, there are many more sources of stress.
8. Masturbation that replaces partnered sex. This is a hot topic since the advent of the Internet. It seems to some researchers in this field that many men who might not have sought out other sources of visual sexual stimulation (magazines, videos, movies) have found their way to locate sexual imagery online. For some couples, this can be a dilemma, particularly when the viewing of the images leads to masturbation, that then leads to less partnered sex. Less partnered sex feels like a blessing to some, but to others it is a frustrating and disappointing outcome.
9. Fear of intimacy. Some men have relationships with their romantic partner that resemble that of siblings. The contact that they experience in their relationship takes the intimacy level up so high that adding sexual intimacy on top of that feels like an overload. Though it may be difficult to imagine that a person could have too much intimacy, it is the hunch of many sex experts today that this is a very common cause of declining sexual frequency in couples.
10. Difficulties functioning sexually. Many men who have an erection dysfunction or believe that they ejaculate too soon -- or too late (if at all), will avoid having sex with their partner. Rather than face what feels like another experience of "failure" in our performance-obssessed culture, these men choose to avoid being sexual at all.
When partnered with a man who does not want sex, the optimal path does not include criticism, belittling, or slurs on his manhood. Armed with accurate information and professional help, most of these causes of sexual avoidance can be greatly improved and in many cases removed altogether.
Reply:The only what you should do is going to that, get a proper medical attention for it. even the type that may mean taking away of your forskin.
Reply:I know many men who have gotten circumcised at your age, a lot younger too. They all say sex in far better and we women love the look.
More and more country's are learning everything is better for circumcised men. Why go through life with a penis that will be only more problems down the road. Only gay old men like foreskin because they are sick in the mind.
The truth is we women love a clean penis and if it has a gross foreskin on it, it is useless.
Reply:(a) try using lubricant ... oil or gel
(b) use condom to stop foreskin moment
(c) if nothing works then circumcise
Reply:YEAA. YOU SHOULD. THERES A REASON WHY BOYS GET CiRCUMCiSED WHEN THEiR BABiES.
Reply:In response to the other post, fewer and fewer babies are getting circumcised. The US is the last remaining advanced country to do it at birth and the rates are going lower; some states as low as 14%.
http://forums.govteen.com/showpost.php?p...
What Mary said, a nurse, well, she works in a hospital or clinic. The only reason guys would go there to remove their foreskin is because they want to; of course they're going to be satisfied. That's like me saying that all foreskin restoration guys end up satisfied, so it's better. Of course they do.
If the stretching doesn't work, there's a cream.
http://www.scielo.br/scielo.php?pid=S167...
It's 0.05% betamethasone and it works on 95% of cases.
Reply:the more cuts in foreskin the more scar tissue, less elasticity. circumcision maybe your only option. if so worried about losing whatever these anti cutting people on here are talking about if it is just the tip of the foreskin that it tight you could have a partial circumcision removing just the tight part. if not circumcision isn't bad. i had it done at 23, am 26 now and sex has only improved. no matter how often it is washed a circumcised one will always be cleaner than uncut. from most opinion polls it is prefered wether for sex, looks or hygeine.
it didn't hurt when i got circumcised. they do use anesthetics and pain meds are readily avaliable now days contrary to what the anti circumcision people on this site try to tell people. thier 'video links' are more often than not procedures filmed in the 80s or by doctors using out dated techniques.
you won't regret it. and your little problem so to speak will be gone. no more painful sex.
Reply:No, circumcision is not your only option. There are many options, but there are also a couple things you must take care of first though.
Before you do anything to remedy your phimosis (a condition where the foreskin opening is too tight/narrow to be retracted fully and easily) you must let your penis heal up. You need to wash the foreskin at least once a day during a shower/bath with mild soap and water. You should also gently dry the area with a towel afterwards. Try to keep the area dry throughout the day if possible. Also, using moisturizing lotion or lotion with aloe vera can help the healing process. You should refrain from doing anything that would move your foreskin a lot - any sexual activity (sex, masturbation, etc). Your foreskin should heal up in a week or two. You don't really need to use antibiotic creams, as that could kill the normal flora of the area and make things worse by causing an imbalance.
Once you're fully healed up, then you should try to remedy your phimosis. First try stretching exercises. In one stretching exercise, take two fingers and kind of hook each finger in two opposite sides of the foreskin opening; then stretch the opening in opposite directions (like increasing its radius) as far as possible without pain or discomfort. Stretch and hold for a few second, then let it relax for a few seconds, then repeat the process for a few minutes each day for several weeks to a month. It's best to do this exercise right after a shower/bath when the skin is most flexible (see link 1 for more info).
If this doesn't work or do much after a month, then you should ask a doctor about prescription creams. In one article, these creams are the most cost-effective treatment a doctor can give you (see link 2).
Lastly, worse comes to worst, and the creams also don't work, then you should probably consider surgical options. This doesn't necessarily mean circumcision, as there are procedures that remove less foreskin, are less painful, have a quicker recovery time, and are cheaper (see link 3). Also, there are varying degrees of circumcision ranging from partial circumcisions that remove almost no foreskin (only the tight part of the foreskin that's causing problems) to removal of the foreskin and even a little bit of shaft skin (see link 4).
See the remaining links for more info on phimosis and stuff. Chances are, if you don't want a circumcision, you won't need one - there are so many alternatives. If you do keep your foreskin, keep it as clean as possible, as that can help prevent future problems and even decrease the possibility of contracting some diseases (see last link).
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